Iowa woman out $112,000 after looking for love online

CLINTON, Iowa (WQAD) -- A Clinton woman is out more than $100,000 because she fell in love. Police say she fell for a man online, and that man took almost everything she had.

You might think this could never happen to you or anyone you know. Police say don't be so sure. Police say the "romance scam" is one of the costliest scams out there.

"We just started emailing back and forth, and then it went to texting. Then after some time, I fell for him."

It didn't take long for an online dating profile to turn into love for a Clinton woman. For the purposes of this story, we'll call her "Linda."

"[It felt] good that someone was out there for me, that I could find somebody," says Linda.

Without ever meeting in person, Linda went all in with her heart and her wallet.

"It was a factory he was building, and I believed him," says Linda.

The mystery man, supposedly named "Mark," told Linda he needed money for this lucrative project, promising to pay Linda back with double the money she gave him.

The first check she wrote was money out of her retirement savings, $48,000. And it didn't stop there.

"I did several charge cards I had, and I maxed them out. He always liked good clothes, good quality clothes," says Linda.

They were separate charges to places like Best Buy, Von Maur, Verison and Federal Express landing Linda a grand total of $112,513.

After this went on for a year, Linda enlisted help from law enforcement who did some digging on her beloved Mark.

"Anybody who asks for money, it's always going to be a scam. No exceptions," says the head of Clinton County's Seniors vs. Crime unit Randy Meier.

Meier wanted to find out exactly who "Mark" really was.

"He responded by producing a passport. It looks really good, but it's fake. We know they're based in West Africa. We know the money went to Ghana or other west African countries in that vicinity. Other than that, it's difficult to identify the person," says Meier.

Broken-hearted, and just flat out broke, Linda has filed for bankruptcy.

Not only is Linda a victim of the romance scam, Meier says if she sends "Mark" any more money or merchandise, she could go to federal prison for money laundering. Linda says she will never send "Mark" another penny.

Meier says the number one way to know if you're falling victim to a romance scam is if the person you are connecting with online asks you to send money. He says the people will be persistent, be hesitant to talk on the phone, and they will tell you anything and everything to get you to send money or merchandise. He says the best thing you can do if you're already in a scam is to stop sending things immediately and to contact police.